The line comes from the 1994 New Zealand drama Once Were Warriors, spoken by Jake Heke during a tense domestic scene that became the film's most quoted moment. Clipped and shared online in the 2000s and 2010s, it turned into a meme in Australia and New Zealand, then wider on soundboards and in video edits. Its lasting use comes from quoting a serious scene for light, everyday arguments about food, cooking and doing chores, where the extreme anger feels hilariously out of proportion.