The phrase grew out of TikTok meme culture, where what the sigma became a playful, ironic reaction phrase linked to sigma slang and exaggerated internet humour. Adding a long, awkward erm at the start turned it into a fuller reaction, used to mock or question something strange without sounding serious. It spread through short reaction videos, edits and soundboard clips, where the hesitation makes the joke land even for viewers who do not follow the original slang. Its brevity and instantly recognisable tone keep it useful as a quick, light-hearted response to odd moments online.