The line comes from Friends, the 1990s sitcom, where Ross Geller, played by David Schwimmer, repeatedly uses it to defend himself to Rachel Green after their relationship breaks down. It became one of the show's most quoted arguments, repeated by Ross whenever the break is brought up again, and fans turned it into shorthand for refusing to accept blame. Online, the clip spread through reaction videos, memes and soundboards, where it is still used to mock anyone hiding behind a technicality.